Everyone knows that a part of getting older includes losing the ability to do things that used to be a part of your everyday routine. Every situation is different. It’s possible that this means your aging parents are having difficulty walking upstairs or perhaps they are beginning to forget to eat lunch or take medication.

A common issue for older people is the strong desire to stay in their home. As children who want the best for their parents, it can be difficult to navigate this time, as there are a lot of decisions that go into figuring out the best option. For a lot of people, they’ve been told and reminded that their parents do not want to live in a home. However, it’s inevitable that the thought of supportive living is taken into consideration. 

It is entirely plausible for older people to continue living independently. Depending on the individual, there are a number of initiatives to take so that this new stage of life can go as smoothly as possible.

The first thing to do is learn what type of support will most contribute to safety and peace of mind for everyone. There are many services in place that have information on full or part time home care. Visit a local Agency of Aging or any senior center to talk with someone who can help you to determine the level of care necessary.

It is critical to consult with a doctor and plan ahead, especially if your loved one has any illnesses such as diabetes. They will be able to explain any problems or setbacks that health problems could create and help you to plan accordingly. The most important thing is to ensure that it is safe for your aging family member to continue living at home.

Some people may need help with personal care routines. Things such as bathing, dressing, or washing their hair could be proving more difficult. Others may need someone to help with household chores. This could involve laundry, yard work, grocery shopping or preparing meals.

Once a conclusion is reached on the type of help your parents need, you can decide whether an at-home caregiver would be beneficial. Some families find that having someone arrive in the morning to help assist with getting ready and then preparing a few meals is all that is needed to keep their loved on a healthy schedule. There are even meal delivery programs that will actually provide hot food for free or a very low cost.

If your loved one has recently been released from the hospital, they may only need short term help while they recover. The hospital discharge planner can assist you in making arrangements so that a home health aid can be available to do things such as remind the client of medicine doses or assist with ambulating safely after surgery.

Lastly, money management can be overwhelming. Especially when you’re taking on the responsibilities of someone else’s finances. Check your resources and find financial counselors or geiratic care managers that can give you advice. Some people find that setting up bill pay online helps to keep everything straight. Most utilities can be paid automatically through a checking account.

The most important thing is safety. Everyone wants the people they love to be safe and taken care of. Make sure that yourself or someone whom you trust has permission to discuss any health care concerns and make necessary decisions if the time comes. Talk to a doctor about whether or not a medical alert bracelet may be a good idea. 


Remember that there are professionals who are specially trained to help provide people in these situations to find the resources necessary to make daily life easier.